Cody Parkey missed a field goal (officially a blocked kick) on Sunday night that would have sent his team deeper into the NFL playoffs, and people wanted him dead. They literally wanted him to die.
See?
Cody Parkey I hope you die
— Zach Taylor (@DownanddirT) January 7, 2019
I hope Cody Parkey dies a horrible death
— Iced out APđź’¶ (@aloading_33) January 7, 2019
Cody Parkey should die of Gonorrhea and rot in hell pic.twitter.com/hJutn4jHya
— jugo (@Madasin_) January 7, 2019
Well, good for you, champ.
And it’s rough when even buildings, which, like some football fans, are incapable of brain function, are on your case, too.
Philadelphia now has literal buildings trolling Cody Parkey. Next level. pic.twitter.com/2M2ulQv7Eg
— 12upSports (@12upSports) January 8, 2019
Heidi Stevens, the Chicago Tribune sports columnist, says she showed her kids some of the hateful tweets, grateful for a teaching moment.
I showed my kids a couple of the cruel tweets. I asked them how they thought it would feel, after a so-so performance, if people piled on and called them names and threatened them. I told them how I would feel if people did that to me every time I made a mistake at work.
We talked about how pro athletes — despite giant paychecks and enviable endorsements and the (fickle) adoration of millions — are humans first. And no game is grounds for threatening or abusing a fellow human.
(I also showed them the tweets saying your team’s offense didn’t do you any favors by only putting up 15 points the rest of the game — 9 of which you scored. A nice reminder that every moment of a game counts, not just the final moment.)
I realize all of this, if you’re even seeing it, is cold comfort. Who wants to be a teaching moment instead of a Super Bowl champ? Nobody.
But as long as I’m raising sports-obsessed kids, I’m going to be searching deep and wide for the instructions we can glean from the triumphs and defeats and all the layers therein.
Today, Parkey went on TV for his first interview since Sunday night.
“Football is what I do. It’s not who I am,” he said.
“I’ll keep my head held high because football’s what I do. It’s not who I am.” -Cody Parkey on @TODAYshow. pic.twitter.com/4CAYg6X68Z
— Bears Talk (@NBCSBears) January 11, 2019
For too many football fans, football is who they are.
Who’s leading the knuckleheads? Sports broadcasters and sports bloggers. Big shock, I know.
That Cody Parkey interview on the Today Show was complete garbage. No #Bears coach, staffer, player or fan needs to see him smiling to a massive TV audience five days after a heartbreaking loss. He added nothing new. There doesn't need to be fanfare for handling failure well.
— Cody Westerlund (@CodyWesterlund) January 11, 2019
I guess what I'm saying is if athletes weren't getting death threats/extreme hate, then we wouldn't be so inclined to praise them on other end for taking accountability just like Bob from Accounting would if he missed a deadline.
— Cody Westerlund (@CodyWesterlund) January 11, 2019
I remember when I was younger and I watched regular network news, it always annoyed me when non-sports anchors did anything related to sports because they always got stuff wrong. This Today Show thing seems like that. https://t.co/jFXAdR9UtY
— Lester A. Wiltfong Jr. (@wiltfongjr) January 11, 2019
Cody Parkey did what is expected of any professional athlete after a tough loss, which is to answer difficult questions after the game. How that makes him the 'classiest of the classiest' or 'most honorable person' I'm sure I don't know.
— Jeff Dickerson (@DickersonESPN) January 11, 2019
All for Cody Parkey moving on with his life but I’d be pretty pissed about him going on national tv to be a feel-good story 5 days later if I was a teammate. Whole thing is weird as hell.
— Nick Shepkowski (@Shep670) January 11, 2019